Two years ago today, I was introduced to a girl by a friend of mine. I had no idea I’d be meeting someone so very cool – I probably would have shaved better. ;)
Lucy’s been my best friend, and she’s always found reserves of patience for me. Over the two years we’ve known each other, we’ve had countless deep, exploring conversations. We’ve changed each other in good ways.
I’m always excited to see her, and we talk every day. When we broke up, she gave me the space I needed to think, and yet was always there to talk when I needed it, and was constantly working on ways to help me with my goals – even when they were at odds with what she wanted from me.
When she tells me she cares about me as a person as much as me, her friend, I believe it. Because she proves it, all the time.
We laugh even on the difficult days. I think she’s adorable, and she thinks I’m hilarious. And many things have changed, in our relationship, in my head, since we separated. What didn’t change is that I want to spend my time with her, one way or another.
I told a few people that whether we were dating or not verged on semantics, and it’s true, so I decided to get rid of the incongruity. It doesn’t make sense to not enjoy what we have right -now- because on some later date we may or may not part ways. That’s not living.
I love you, gopher. Happy 2 years, with lots of head-chewing to come.
Aw!
I win!
Yeah, two years ago this date I crashed a party with a supercool friend of mine, Diana. There I sat with Diana and her friends who had tagged along, and my eyes kept drifting to Scott, and not just because I had photography plans for him for the next day. I’ve been drawn to him from the very start.
We have so much fun, and I’m really excited to see what our next days and weeks and months bring. Amazingly enough, throughout the three-month break-up the one who was there for me the most was him, as difficult as that was for him. (and for me) I’ve changed since then, and from that, and found a person inside of myself who I like, and who I trust. I’ve also found that I want to spend time with Scott more and more, and its better than ever.
I love you, erm… bigger gopher? groundhog? beaver? monkey! Ook ook.
Happy 2 years, from your silly girl
Aw.
*hugs* to you both.
Looking forward to going club-clothes shopping with you sometime. Thursday the 29th maybe? Shall we take the boys?
Sadly, Thursday the 29th is my actual birthday, and I’m going to Cheeseburger in Paradise with all the vet folks. However I am free Tuesday the 27th! We can take the boys or leave ’em, if they think it would be fun, they should join!
What are you, crazy? Am I red-blooded and american and
hotinterested?Yes, please.
All I know is that I’m going to Necto on Wednesday the 21st. You should go, too. And we can bring lots of people. :)
AWWWWWWWWWWWW!!
Happy anniversary!!
Yay for head-chewing! Or something like that. :)
*hugs* you both.
congrats, guys. *hugs*
*group hug*
:D
Happy Anniversary!
;)
grats guys.
AWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!
:)
*grinny-grin-grin*
yaaaay!
I am so happy for you guys – good people certainly deserve to be happy!! :) Congrats and other mushy stuff! :)
This post is made of squishy gooey sweet win!