SK: I had an amazing weekend.
K.T.: very cool
K.T.: what did you do?
SK: Lucy came up to visit thursday night (Zelda time!). She busied herself while I was at work on Friday (told me she was at the mall and playing games) and met me here so we could go to Trase’s to socialize. We had a great time with Trase and George (fabulous food), and when we came back to my place, I discovered that while I was at work, she had cleaned.
SK: And when I say cleaned, I mean she vacuumed, did my dishes, cleaned my bathroom, did my laundry, organized my papers, and bought (my favorite) food for me. She left white flowers on two of my tables, as well as my keys (which I hadn’t asked for), and picked up some of her things that were still here.
SK: She wrote a note to explain that she understood I have moved on and didn’t want this to be confused for some strange attempt to win me over – she just wanted to thank me for being there for her and helping her grow. And she knew that having a clean and organized place would help me work on my projects, which has thus far been quite true.
K.T.: wow
K.T.: sounds excellent
K.T.: both the act and the reasoning
SK: We spent saturday just hanging out, playing games, store hopping, and watching Better Off Dead.
SK: She’s in Cleveland, with her family, for the week.
To say that Lucy is a sweetheart is to dramatically understate how very cool she is. When she says that she wants the best for me, that seeing me happy makes her happy, she isn’t just blowing smoke. She really does want to see the best for me, by my definition, and it is amazing to have someone in my life who believes in that, no matter what.
Our break-up has been hard, confusing and painful. Yet it’s also been a humbling experience and a growing-closer. I feel incredibly, incredibly lucky to have such a loving, thoughtful, straightforward person in my life. She’s taught me so much since I first got to know her, and I look forward to learning much more.
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I talked to Rachael today, and told her I’ll be in Philly for my uncle’s wedding. Yes, the one where I’m supposed to be the best man (so sayeth my mom, but in this family, who knows, heh). 